By Steve Pawlyk
Published June 20, 2023
So, you’re 17 and just about to dive into the world of All Star Cheerleading for the first time? This can be a thrilling yet nerve-wracking experience, especially if you’ve taken a break from stunting for a few years. But fret not. Whether you’re worried about your skills, or your ability to fit in with your peers, remember: You’re not alone. In fact, many successful cheerleaders have walked this path before you and found their place in the team.
1. Refreshing Your Skills
First, let’s address the tumbling and stunting. It’s fantastic that you’ve retained your tumbling skills around level 4. That’s a solid starting point, and it shows that you’ve put in the work and commitment before. Before tryouts, make sure you spend time each day practicing, but don’t push yourself too hard that you risk injury.
Stunting, however, can be a bit more daunting if you haven’t done it in a while. If you have the opportunity, consider attending a couple of stunting workshops or classes. If that’s not an option, use YouTube tutorials and practice at home using a safe set-up. Focus on your basics and ensure you’re comfortable and confident in those before trying anything more complex. Remember, it’s okay not to have everything down perfectly, coaches will be looking for potential as well as existing skills.
2. Dealing with Social Anxiety
Now, let’s tackle the social aspect. Having social anxiety can make this experience feel even more daunting. It’s important to know that it’s okay to be nervous. The key is to try and use this nervous energy to fuel your performance. Show up to the tryouts, present yourself confidently, and do your best. That’s all anyone can ask of you.
When it comes to dealing with the other cheerleaders, remember that everyone has their own story and battles to fight. Some of the girls may seem intimidating, but they could be dealing with their own insecurities. Approach them with an open mind, be kind and genuine, and most importantly, be yourself. If you stay true to who you are, you’ll attract the right kind of people to you.
3. Embracing Your Individuality
Speaking of being yourself, let’s discuss your unique look. Having piercings and different makeup might make you feel like you stick out, but remember, the cheer world values individuality and expression. Embrace your style. It might even help you stand out in a positive way.
However, for the tryouts and during practices, you may need to adjust your look to meet safety guidelines. Piercings could pose a risk during stunts, and heavy makeup might be uncomfortable during a sweaty practice. You could consider using clear piercings or removing them during practice, and possibly minimizing your makeup. But this doesn’t mean you need to abandon your style altogether. Find a balance that allows you to feel comfortable and safe while staying true to who you are.
4. Setting Expectations
Lastly, be prepared for both acceptance and rejection. Not making the team doesn’t mean you’re not good enough or that you’ll never be a successful cheerleader. It’s an opportunity to learn, grow, and come back stronger next time. If you do make the team, that’s fantastic, but remember that every new journey comes with its own set of challenges. Be patient with yourself as you navigate this new experience.
Starting All Star cheerleading later than others can indeed be intimidating. But with a clear mind, the right preparation, and an open heart, you can not only make it into the team but also carve out