Cheerleading Personal Boundaries Archives

By Steve Pawlyk

Published June 19, 2023

I saw a heartbreaking post in the r/cheerleading subreddit this morning that I thought I should address:

Cheerleading is more than just a sport. It’s a lifestyle, a commitment, and for many, it becomes an integral part of their identity. However, with the privilege of being the face of a college/school/gym also comes a set of expectations that can take a toll on even the most dedicated athletes.

At IPP Music, we’ve worked closely with cheerleading teams across the nation, and we’ve seen firsthand the struggles they face beyond mastering intricate routines or synchronizing to the perfect cheer music mix.

In an environment where every move is under scrutiny, cheerleaders are often expected to look and act a certain way. They are supposed to embody the spirit of their schools, maintain an upbeat and social disposition, and fit into a certain physical image that can often feel unachievable. While these expectations can instigate discipline and camaraderie, they can also impose a mental and emotional burden on cheerleaders, chipping away at their self-esteem and personal well-being.

A survey conducted by the National Eating Disorders Association found that athletes in judged sports, like cheerleading, are at a higher risk of developing eating disorders. This can be attributed, in part, to the pressure to fit into a certain uniform size or maintain a certain look. Cheerleaders have been told they are “too pale”, “too fat”, or “not enough” of something in a realm where there is always room for comparison and criticism.

Moreover, the constant need to appear cheerful and sociable can become draining. Cheerleaders often find themselves being told they are “not social enough,” which can be particularly difficult for those who are introverted or dealing with personal issues.

So, how can we challenge these stereotypes and alleviate these pressures?

1. Open Discussions:

Creating a space where cheerleaders can openly discuss their feelings and experiences without judgment is crucial. Coaches and team leaders should foster an environment where athletes can express their concerns about body image, societal pressure, and mental health. These discussions can go a long way towards dispelling harmful stereotypes and promoting self-acceptance.

2. Redefining Standards:

The notion that all cheerleaders must look or behave a certain way is outdated and restrictive. Teams and coaches can work towards breaking these norms by encouraging diversity and individuality. The most powerful cheerleading squads aren’t those with members who all look the same; they’re those where each cheerleader brings their unique strengths and personalities to the team.

3. Support Systems:

Establishing a network of support that includes coaches, peers, and mental health professionals can make a significant difference in the lives of cheerleaders. Knowing they have people to turn to, who understand their struggles and offer solutions, can mitigate the stress associated with the pressures of cheerleading.

4. Emphasizing Health Over Aesthetics:

Prioritizing the health and fitness of cheerleaders over their appearance is essential. Training should focus on building strength, stamina, and flexibility rather than achieving a specific body shape or size.

Cheerleading should be an experience that builds character, fosters friendships, and instills a sense of school spirit. It should not be a breeding ground for insecurities or a source of undue stress. As we work together to create the perfect cheer music for your routines at IPP Music, we also hope to inspire a harmonious environment that celebrates each cheerleader’s individuality and passion.

Cheerleading is a beautiful sport filled with vigor, enthusiasm, and teamwork. It’s high time we break the mould, challenge the stereotypes, and ensure our cheerleaders feel cherished, appreciated, and comfortable being themselves

What can I do about it as a cheerleader?

Cheerleaders themselves play a crucial role in bringing about this change. Here are a few steps they can take to navigate the pressures of college cheerleading:

1. Speak Up:

If you’re feeling overwhelmed by expectations, don’t hesitate to voice your concerns. Open communication can lead to understanding, support, and change. If something makes you uncomfortable, let your coach or a trusted team member know. Remember, your mental and physical well-being is as important as the performance itself.

2. Self-care:

Take time for yourself amidst the busy cheer schedule. Engage in activities that help you relax, and ensure you’re getting adequate sleep and proper nutrition. It’s not selfish to prioritize your health and well-being – it’s necessary.

3. Set Personal Boundaries:
While being part of a team, it’s essential to set boundaries that protect your individuality and mental health. Don’t feel pressured to conform to norms that don’t align with your beliefs or comfort. It’s okay to say ‘no’ when necessary.

4. Practice Self-love and Acceptance:
Remember, the perceived “perfect cheerleader” doesn’t exist. Celebrate your strengths and understand that everyone has areas of improvement. It’s okay not to fit into the mould. Appreciate your unique qualities and talents – they’re what make you an asset to your team

5. Support Your Teammates:
Just as you may be feeling pressure, your fellow cheerleaders might be experiencing the same. Be supportive of each other. Foster a positive team culture that values every member’s contributions and encourages open communication.

6. Seek Professional Help If Needed:
If the pressures of cheerleading are causing significant stress or leading to harmful behaviors, it’s important to reach out to mental health professionals. Therapists and counselors can provide strategies to cope with stress and address any potential mental health issues.

Remember, cheerleading is about creating a sense of unity and school spirit. It’s about teamwork, passion, and having fun. The uniform you wear or how outgoing you are should never overshadow your love for the sport. Stay true to yourself, prioritize your well-being, and remember that you bring something unique and invaluable to your team. You are more than enough just as you are